Is it the suitable time to emphasise or magnify someone's imperfection when they are no longer yours? If you are about to reveal one's bad habits when he has passed away, what would the others think of you? Illness took his life away, lefting his beloved wife and children behind. People share good things about the deceased but his beloved wife had emphasized on his bad habits in daily life in the funeral. She made their friends laugh and her kids wonder why would their mother did this. After all, the mother claimed that those snoring and farting that occurs in her daily life were indicating the presence of her husband. It's his imperfection that makes him so perfect in his wife's life. And now, she can no longer listen to those anymore.
People, we do have some weird habits or some "outstanding" behaviours that make us so special and unique in others' eyes. Be grateful on those great people you have with you, those who are willing to accept, or even appreciate the imperfect you as a part of their life; those who really care how you feel; those who never put the blames on you. You know they love you, and in the end, it's LOVE which connects us strongly. We are loved although we are beautifully imperfect.
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